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At the heart of the apathetic or nostalgic attitude is the disregard of why things have ever changed ? and it might have necessary to do so. For the nostalgic , the past never requires change or development;
History progressed for no reason. The complexities of the present moment are in this sense completely accidental. They are not difficult byproducts of a legitimate search for development. The nostalgic cannot accept that the present, whatever the defect, has come because of unavoidable difficulties with the past. They insist that we already had once completely happy, we mysteriously changed everything for the worse we have forgotten it. We don’t mind relationships selected. It can also be felt here that if we were satisfied once and then increased grateful through error and inattention. Still finding deep satisfaction.
In the past, we are giving credit to our earlier selves with very little sharpness.
A relationship is as it is best explored when we are feeling six months or less
A few years after its conclusion, but what we should have known when we knew about it between; When we were aware of all the facts on which we slowed down our pace the decision to leave intentionally. The mind is a nervous organ. It Doesn’t like to process BAD NEWS unless there is a highly present danger to be attended to. But knowing that we forgot things , we can be sure that unpleasantness must be existed.
Otherwise there would be no explanation for our decision to separate our position. The picture we are painting of a relationship is coming from knowledge, but from loneliness and apprehension.
We should not trust what we feel now, in our crying state, but what we should do , we must definitely trust the decisions that we make. Taken when we had maximum information to hand, when we made them — when not
we have emotional encouragement to change our mind and mold ourselves into a caricature of an easily nurtured creature.
There were inspiring reasons, even though — in our sorrow
- Now we cannot remember a single one. Returning to the past, we will not find material, It will only include — at great cost to all involved — remind us why the change was in the end was so necessary.
We need to accept that good things existed,but they were no reasonable solution to some of our well-established contingency needs. It means
accepting that we are as complex and as difficult as we are and that
the way forward is to accept our characters as an ingenuity rather than accepting we could never live up to.
We must have courage, and be ready to pay full price for our true complex natures.
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